My job as the Senior Living Advisor for A Place at Home

My job as the Senior Living Advisor for A Place at Home is a free service to anyone seeking a senior living community in the Omaha metropolitan area. I’ve seen many different senior living scenarios since I began my position.

I’ve assisted sons and daughters, siblings and spouses or friends for that special person in their life. I’ve also assisted individuals who knew that being proactive now would make things easier for not only themselves but for friends and family down the line.

One of the scenarios that often comes my way is “can couples live together”? Also “what might the pros and cons consist of”?

It is actually rare that both spouses need the same type of care. Let’s face it, we all age differently and there is no exception when it comes to couples.

I often see one spouse doing most of the caring for the other. This can present 3 different scenarios.

  1. The spouse that needs more care moves to a senior living community and the other remains at home.
  2. Both spouses move to a community and share an apartment and receive different levels of care.
  3. Both spouses move to a community and each have a different apartment (independent, assisted or memory depending on the care).

Each of these scenarios can take place and all seem to work out. Of course every situation is different depending on care, finances and how independent the opposite spouse is. The ultimate answer though is “YES”, couples can live together. The pros for living together might be staying together and/or both getting care together. The cons on the other hand may be harder for the more independent spouse. Even though care is being provided for one spouse, the other spouse may not have the independence because they remain in the same apartment.

Please call me today at 402-932-4646 – Option 2 and let me assist you.

Three Types of In Home Care Services for Your Aging Parents

Three Types of In-Home Health Care Services for Your Aging Parents
According to the CDC, 4.9 million seniors require some form of in-home care on a regular basis. If your Mom and/or Dad are among them you’ve got some tough decisions ahead.

Understanding your options is vital if you’re going to choose the care strategy best suited to your parent’s needs.

Your first option is to care for your elderly loved one or loved ones yourself. Millions do; taking on domestic tasks, medication management and personal care tasks without the benefit of either training or pay. Many adult children find the physical, mental, and emotional toll these tasks take to be too much. According to Kaiser Health News you’re statistically likely to start neglecting your own needs, and may put yourself at risk for depression among other issues, should you make this attempt.

After all, taking on these tasks yourself could make demands you never expected. Few adult children are comfortable with the idea of bathing their mother or father, for example, or helping mom or dad use the toilet.

The challenges grow even greater if you are a member of the “sandwich generation,” an adult with elderly parents and children of your own to care for.

The other two options mean taking advantage of one of two types of in-home services.
The first type is home health care. Home health care is best suited for seniors who have serious medical issues. This level of care would usually involve help from a skilled, licensed RN. It may cover wound care, physical therapy, occupational therapy, and more.

Home health care is sometimes only necessary in the short term. Insurance or medicare will usually cover these services should your parents require it.

Private duty home care is the second type. Private duty home care tackles a variety of services seniors need to manage day-to-day living. These can include help with housekeeping, meal preparation, bath assistance and even help with errands. Home care agencies can also help seniors manage loneliness by playing games with them or driving them to social events.

Long-term private duty home care can help seniors maintain some level of independence. It can also give you peace of mind without draining your personal resources. The right set-up can even be affordable, allowing you to pay only for the time and services your Mom or Dad might need.

Got questions? Call us about our private duty home care services today.

References
https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/home-health-care.htmhttp://khn.org/news/parent-trap/